15 May

Dating online safely

The stigma that used to be attached to online dating has mostly disappeared and more and more people are using sites like Parship UK to search for a significant and lasting relationship.  There are many positives to dating someone that you meet online, the ability to find out more about them before you meet for the first time than you would perhaps discover if you just happened to meet them in a pub or club, but, as with everything in life, caution should always be shown when arranging to meet a stranger for the first time no matter how sure you are that they are genuine.  While the overwhelming numbers of people who are using online dating sites are trustworthy, taking a few precautions when arranging a date online is the sensible thing to do.

Do not give out your phone number or home address until after you have met the person in real life and are sure that you are comfortable doing so.  When you are making arrangements to meet for the first time, arrange somewhere public where other people will be such as a restaurant and let friends or family members know where you are going, what you are doing, and when you are likely to be home.  It is also a good idea to make arrangements to ‘check in’ with a friend or family member during the date.  Even if this first date goes really well it is advisable to arrange a few more dates in a public location and do not accept the offer of a lift home when the date is finished no matter how well meaning the offer might be.

The internet offers a wealth of information so don’t be afraid to use Google to research your potential dates, chances are, they’ll be doing the same so don’t feel guilty.

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11 May

Do your research when it comes to online dating

In the UK and Ireland alone, there are over 15 million singles, and seven million of them are looking for a long-term relationship.  They are finished with the pub and club culture and want to settle down with a life partner.  Unfortunately, it is not always easy to find the love of your life online, or offline for that matter.  It can be difficult meeting compatible singles, especially if you have a steady job, or are a single parent. 

If you have been single for some time, or are ready to date after the death of a partner, online dating can be much easier than joining a local club or spending every weekend at the local pub.  Offline dating takes a considerable amount of time, and if you lead a busy life, the last thing you want to do is make yourself presentable just so you can go out and meet a potential partner. 

With online dating, you can browse hundreds of singles in the privacy of your own home and choose whom you would like to introduce yourself to.  Reputable relationship sites offer a safe and secure environment where you will remain totally anonymous.  This is important for everyone, but especially single parents.  Find a website that checks out everyone’s profile.  People can say whatever they want on the internet, and you do not want to find yourself falling for someone who says that are something that they are not.  The headlines are full of stories about men and women who have been taken for everything because they fell for a con man or woman. 

When you find an online dating site that you like, do your research.  Find out what others have to say.  One of the best ways to find out about a company is through an online review. 

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1 May

Finding love online

Many single people have considered using Irish dating sites to find that special someone. Looking for love can be draining and ultimately heartbreaking and increasingly, long-term singles looking for love are struggling with ever-limited opportunities to meet new people.  With close friends settled in long-term relationships, socialising becomes more of a couples’ world, with far fewer opportunities to visits bars, nightclubs or coffee houses where there would be a better chance to connect with the rest of dating Ireland. So, if it feels as though the window of opportunity has closed, turn to Irish dating sites to open up a whole new world of possibilities.

With Parship dating, it is acceptable to have expectations and standards at outset and there is no need to compromise. Singles can take control of the dating experience and use their own personal “shopping list” to determine exactly the kind of person they would like to meet. The site will then use a compatibility test to identify potential matches. This means there is no need to go out looking for love and risk wasting valuable time and energy getting to know the wrong people. By dating online, two people can stay safe whilst they begin to get to know one another, so they are no longer strangers when they meet for the first time.

This is why online dating makes perfect sense. It is safe, simple and designed to set up encounters between likeminded people looking for the same thing. This surely beats standing alone at a bar, any day.

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27 Apr

21st century dating

With increased access to the internet, dating has taken on a whole different aspect over the past decade. For singles seeking a long-term partner in the 21st century, online dating sites have become a popular way of meeting a significant other.

In today’s busy world, many feel that they do not have the time to go out and date countless other singles in the hope of finding a mate. It is less time consuming and undemanding to connect with potential partners online and only meet up with those that you really think you will connect with.

Online dating has many advantages; one of them being that you can learn what a person looks like before you meet them, in addition to ascertaining their likes and dislikes and other information, such as their job, hobbies and experiences, which all make conversation easier when you meet face to face.

Meeting fellow daters online also gives singletons access to many more potential partners than they would probably be able to meet in real life. This makes the chance of meeting someone with whom you will be able to form a romantic relationship much, much higher.

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17 Apr

Someone for everyone

There is a wide range of online dating sites available to singles looking to form relationships. Different dating sites are aimed at different types of people, whether it is based on age, professional background or hobby. There are dating sites that cater for the specific type of relationship their members are looking for, whether gay or straight, a long-term serious relationship, something more casual or simply companionship.

With today’s widespread use of the internet, online dating is an excellent option for meeting a future partner. It can be done from home and gives daters the opportunity to meet many more potential partners than in real life, thanks to the compatibility software used by most dating sites. The site’s software takes some of the hard work out of dating, as it will introduce you to people who are most likely to be compatible. 

A popular online dating site for well-educated, professional people is Parship Dating. This popular site was included in ’10 of the Best’ dating sites by the Daily Telegraph, in 2010. 

Parship claims that its matching system has helped 38% of its premium members get lucky in love since its inception over ten years ago. The company also guarantees its premium members that if they have not found a suitable match within six months of joining, they receive another six months membership free.

All of the above incentivises people to join dating sites and undoubtedly, the more members a site has, the more likely it is that you will find someone who is compatible.

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15 Apr

Taking the best profile photo

Getting the right photo is an important part of your online dating profile and should be given some thought before uploading what you happen to have saved on the computer. Prior to actually meeting, your photo is the first time your potential dates will get to see you. They will judge you on how you look, so it is essential to make a good first impression.

Firstly, you may decide to use an old photo rather than go to the trouble of taking a new one. Before you decide, bear in mind that an existing photo should not be too old, as you have probably changed. It should be shot on your own and the location should not reveal any personal information, such as your home address.

There are basic dating advice rules for profile photos, which will increase your chances of getting a shot you are happy with. Before taking a photo, decide what you are going to wear. Opt for simple clothes rather than fussy patterns; they will flatter your skin tone and eye colour. Stay away from clothes that may define you, such as sportswear. Wear colours that do not blend in with the background, so that you stand out in the photo.

Remember to smile, so that you appear to be friendly and welcoming to potential suitors. Look at your body language before taking the photo. Ensure that the camera is level with your face and maintain eye contact with it. Keep your body position open and do not cross arms and legs.

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6 Apr

Can dating an older man work?

Is it possible to date an older guy and really make it work? Perhaps you are thinking of dating an older man you have met through online dating and are wondering if an age gap really does matter?

Having an age gap in a relationship may come with its concerns, but if you are happy together then that should be your main priority. There are however, certain issues that you may need to address as the relationship develops.

Even with dating advice or reading a dating blog, nothing can prepare you for other people’s attitudes towards the age gap. Friends and family may feel unhappy with the situation and friends, in particular, may think they will have nothing in common with him. However, once they see the positive and loving relationship their concerns should fade.

The age gap may show up a lack of shared experiences, as you will have grown up in different eras and have different outlooks on various aspects of life. Treat these as opportunities to learn from each other rather than reasons to drift apart.

If the relationship is worth the effort then do not let an age gap stand in the way of dating and happiness.

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1 Apr

Getting started with online dating

To make the most of your online dating experience take your time choosing an appropriate site by getting personal recommendations and doing a little research into the various options available.

When you have decided which dating site to join it is advisable to have an in-depth look at it and familiarise yourself with the layout and how the dating procedure works.

Many sites have added features, such as blogs and articles on online dating. Dating sites, such as Parship, have relationship professionals who are on hand to provide assistance on how to get started and offer tips on filling out the personality questionnaire. Guidance is available to help you get started as well as to answer queries you may have during the dating process. Parship’s dating articles enable you read about different aspects of dating, including some amusing anecdotes about other members’ experiences.

Give yourself plenty of time to fill in the questionnaire; take your time providing answers and be sure to answer the questions accurately or you may risk being introduced to people with whom you are incompatible.

Ensure that you provide as many details about the type of person you would like to meet as possible and any particulars about yourself that you think will be important to other people. Privacy is very important on most online dating sites and you should not be asked to share any information that you are not happy to reveal.

Do not worry unduly about your photograph. Some sites give you the option of posting a photo and others, like Parship UK, request that, while you must post a photo, it appears blurred to everyone, except those who you want to see it.

Remember to relax and enjoy yourself, as this will give you the best chance of meeting someone. Have the confidence to be yourself and someone will be attracted to you for exactly who you are.

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29 Mar

First date ideas – Ireland

First dates can be nerve-wracking experiences and in order to make a good first impression getting the venue right can sometimes add to the pressure. If you have met online, on an Irish dating site such as Parship, this will be the first time that you have seen each other. Before making any suggestions on where to go, read on to ensure you date is as successful as possible.  

Firstly, do not pick anywhere with high noise levels where you will be unable to hold a conversation, such as a nightclub. Also, quickly scan your date’s profile to pick up any likes and dislikes, which will help find the best place for a date. For example, if they are terrified of horses they will not thank you for a day’s horse riding. Always choose a public place to meet that is easily accessible to ensure your safety.

When selecting a venue for dating Ireland has lots of places that will make your day memorable and leave a good first impression. A picnic in the park is a great first date idea and it can be as simple or extravagant as you wish. You could make sandwiches and cake or bring strawberries and champagne and make it a unique experience.

Visiting a good zoo can, perhaps surprisingly, make an ideal venue. There are plenty of things to see and do to help the conversation flow and if the date goes well you can easily spend the day there.  For something a little different, opt for a balloon ride, although these are dependent on weather, so have a backup plan in place.

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27 Mar

Attract your man using body language skills

The difference between a successful date and one not quite going to plan may lie in your body language. Whether you have sought dating advice from a dating blog or your nearest and dearest, follow these simple body language skills before any date in order to attract him and ensure a second meeting.

When dating and particularly after contact has been initiated through online dating, remember that first impressions really do count. Ensure that you look your best and you will feel your best, getting the date off to a good start.

Firstly, body language is all about the eyes. Make sure that you make direct eye contact with your date after a few sideward glances to show interest. Try not to fidget or tap fingers as this shows disinterest. Other signs that you are not interested include folded arms and turning away from him. Show interest with an open posture, your body fully turned towards your date and head slightly tilted.

Mirroring his body language is a sign that the date is going well and your body language skills have worked.

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